“Just be patient. Let the game come to you. Don’t rush. Be quick, but don’t hurry.”

-Earl Monroe

The Size Zero Myth:


No, speak out, the moment you have feelings!!

You should not keep stuff in your heart, speak out and get it cleared from inside, you will feel better…..

Someone else might jump in, if I don’t tell her right away.


The Wise Hero Reality:


Here’s how it works: The brain sends signals to the adrenal gland, which secretes hormones such as adrenaline, epinephrine and norepinephrine. They flow through the blood and cause the heart to beat faster and stronger.

For people with serious heart problems, love could actually be dangerous!!


Let’s skip the science for now. We have made it simpler and listed out the steps!!

  • Get to know the person in and out, right from the toothpaste to the flavour of gum.
  • The more you will know the likes the more you will get to know the dislikes (which obviously you will try to avoid!!)
  • Don’t get emotionally attached but relate to the situation.
  • Treat how you would treat others (let’s not treat our target as aliens!!)
  • Last but not the least, be normal (yourself)!!
  • Glue too takes time to bond unless you are using a super glue, which you don’t have (that’s why you are reading this)
  • Trust yourself you will know the right moment to pop that question but clearly it’s not now!!


You can’t rush something you want to last forever.